Ok, so I know it’s been way too long since my last post, but this Cincinnista has been grappling with the big 5-0, swamped with work, and just frankly a bit distracted. I know a lot of friends that have struggled with this big birthday for obvious reasons, but my first and foremost issue was that my father died suddenly from a heart attack in his 50’s, hence my paranoia started months ago. Like why can’t that happen to me, right?
However, the reality is that unlike my father, my blood pressure is great, my cholesterol is good and frankly I’m tired of worrying about it. While I’m working harder than ever to keep the pounds off, and yes, I’ll confess I use botox and other tools of the trade to look good (no plastic surgery though to fend off the post baby flab…yes, they were worth it:), but I think I naturally look and feel pretty damn good. Now, please note that, this is is in no way narcissistic. I guess I’m just basing this upon comments I’ve received from others and my highly complimentary husband. (Yes, he’s 53 and tells me not to complain!) The best was last week while walking in to a bar I got carded by a bouncer and I said “really?!” He replied “I’ll bet I can beat you,” took one look at my idea and said “Ok, you win!”. Too funny.
Now, don’t think I have the stamina of a 30 year old, which sometimes I feel like I’m supposed to have being a busy mom of two, running a growing business, active in the community and socially, and trying to spend quality time with my wonderful hubby. But despite being 50, I still love to drink wine, have fun, wear hip clothes and annoy my kids with my “embarrassing” sarcastic humor. However, the drinking wine part might need to slow down because I sure can’t do it like I used to, as proven on my recent trip to New Orleans. I mean, how does one drink all day and night? Probably best I don’t find out….after all I am 50, right?! The one thing that isn’t changing, however, is the name of this blog. It will remain “Over 40 and Fabulous.” After all, this hip 50 year old can still teach a few things to my youngster friends, right? Cheers and enjoy the wisdom!
Vendors participating are:
-Cycle Bar
-Alligator Purse
-Co-Op on Camargo
-J McLaughlin
-Trend
-Leeli & Lou
-Sloane
-Pink Tulip Club
-Kendra Scott
-The Wardrobe
-CQ Luxe
Note, that this is not a St. Mary event only! We want all Cincinnista’s who appreciate the best in fun and fashion to attend. Cost is $45 a person. To register go to:
https://smchp.weshareonline.org/ws/opportunities/BNBSMSFashionShow
Here are some sneak peeks into the looks you’ll be seeing.
See you there! Cheers!
After much research here are my top 7 trends for 2018!
-Shine and gloss: From metallics to now actual yes, vinyl, glossy pants and tops, anything shimmery (well almost) is in. Just make sure to not let your entire outfit be a reflective sign and mix and match the wow pieces with the more subdued.
-Mixed prints. Again, we want to be careful of not becoming a fashion “mine field” , but the juxtaposition of different prints is very current. Don’t be afraid to mix those plaid jeans with an embroidered top for example if the colors work together.
-Fringe: While I’m a bit of a bohemian haute couture dresser myself on my casual days, fringe is still in! From sweaters to handbags, the 70’s are still with us. Just a little moderation ladies!
-Nineties Influences: Ugh sorry ladies, I’m not advocating Alexa Carrington’s oversized should pads, but the windbreaker and “bomber style” jackets have come back but in a with more sophisticated and interesting materials.
-Haute Demin: While demin will never go out of style, it’s time to leave your Levi’s and get more creative. Many of us older Cincinnistas aren’t into the distressed, holely look but what about zippers and contrasting panels of focus? Sounds kind of fun to me!
-Utilitarian and Camo style clothing. While I still treasure the army green and lace Veronica Beard jacket I got on big time sale this summer, this look isn’t going away. Camo themed sweaters to pants with utilitarian outside military pockets are all over the run ways for the spring.
So cheers and Happy New Year and check out some of these looks!
For the event on Friday night we ask that you bring any type of art, office or craft supply. Be creative! Not feeling creative? A $5 donation is suggested.
In addition we will be serving wine from the Wine Merchant as well as other beverages and yummy lite bites from Che, also located in OTR.
So please join us for an evening for a great cause and fun!
Everything from the hotel to the food to the topography, and of course the wine was perfect. A referral from a friend, we stayed in Sonoma at the Fairmont Mission Inn and Spa, a place of beauty yet with tons of history and character. Despite, the long flight to San Francisco, we were ready for two days of wineries in both Sonoma then Napa. We selected only those wineries with good reputations and of course hired a driver! It’s hard to say which was our favorite, but we did love the energy at Wellington, the amazing cabernet at Etude and the incredible view at Stag’s Leap. Not to mention, everyone working at the wineries was incredible nice and passionate about their jobs. We also lunched at the famous Auberge du Soleil hotel.
After the wine tours, it was time to change gears. Tom went golfing at the scenic Sonoma Country Club while I spent and afternoon at the Fairmont’s amazing spa. The service was impeccable and the interior beautiful. (and we all know how much I care about that!:) After my services, I sipped sparking wine by the private outdoor pool basking in relaxation.
Finally on our last day, we hung at the lovely pool for a bit then ventured in to the actual town of Sonoma for dinner. We stopped at an authentic Mexican Restaurant for a yummy, hand made margarita, then off to the Girl and the Fig for an amazing main course.
Overall, it was hard to leave and I can’t wait to go back. Thank goodness this Cincinnista stocked up on some good wine that we are still drinking! Cheers!